Everything I ever owned which is of value – it fits in a shoebox shoved under my bed. There is a Time and Place for things made up of nothing more than useless sentiment – under the bed is a good Place. And Time…well that’s the tricky one.
Shoebox delvings are meant for certain type of days- when the sun shines a little gentler – when the current road seems too beaten to death and its time to blow the cobwebs off on things that cannot be supported by 4 pieces of cardboard. A guided tour down memory lane requires environmental support.
So I yanked the old box out one morning.
An old postscript to ‘my little lady, from Grandpa’
Reams of angst ridden poetry in support of a current love interest.
Play tickets.
Newspaper write ups cried over and loved.
Suddenly…an email.
A sign of modernity - an email worthy enough to be printed. Proof of the early days of distrust in the transient cyber world where one click can destroy – that’s where I found him.
Immortalized in low quality jet print on file paper.
Forgotten in a shoebox.
All I could remember of the writer is this vague combination – of laughter, elaichi tea and a cheap paratha place with red plastic chairs… throw that in with some indistinct pursuit of artistic endeavor- and that just about makes the cut.
That’s it.
Nothing more.
In complete shock I realize that I can’t remember anything else.
Zilch.
There’s a sickening quality of a Hannibal Lector about Time. It creeps up on you and slowly erases, in parts, a lifetime filled with sensation and action. And one day, out comes a shoebox and you hit pause mode, turn back and it’s a wall of blackness. You’re left to grope and snatch at what was so intensely alive and all you can get … all there’s left are a bunch of dull freeze frames randomly strung together, with an insipid sepia about it.
Time wrecks havoc.
I sat there, clutching at this piece of paper …watching another day draw to an ominous close... Another day of consequence and events that will slip behind that iron veil…into the wall of Time. Unrecoverable.
Inviolable.
Gone.
"You once said to me: 'If we never meet again - it wouldn't make a difference'. But you didn't say it wouldn't matter. Do you know I understood the nuance. It was really long ago, but but did you know?"
The email ended with the day.
Wednesday
Tuesday
Of Adventure mostly...
A room grows dark. A blue light envelops it…and suddenly, through a crack I can see those simmering eyes of Galadrial burn at me with …oh so much compassion.
I can hear my brain say aloud “It’s got to be Elven”…and the rest of the thouht just fades into a strange tongue….and I realize I know the meaning of those words although I can’t understand it. … “Its got to be Elven when there is such compassion that’s never been seen before on a human face”.
Then…she lifted up her hand and from the ring that she wore there issued a great light that illuminated her alone and left all else dark.She stood tall beyond measurement, and beautiful beyond enduring, terrible and worshipful.
Those blue eyes framed in that ethereal face moved into expression…And then she's gone…the dark fades as a trashy tubelight flickers on...
... And I read the book. Now its all just in there.
That book is a part of the Life I never had…a life that peeks open through doors in dark rooms and fade with the light of an alleged Reality.
Some times, even when I don’t know it, I find myself walking down the roads on the Other side. Without knowing it, my feet took a turn at a Time warp…and ….I’m on the Road.
Rickshaws pass me by and people talk in a language unknown to me…I walk apart from the roaring crowd that marches to the rhythm that’s unfamiliar to me. … A map in my bag and I smell Adventure.
Or the banks of some sacred river at sunset….watch the faithful go to prayer at a melancholy call across the landscape…or when the sun rises a top a temple in Rajashtan.
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.
The trip ends and magic and adventure sinks into the gaps between…the pages of a book.
I switch the lights on in the dark room that flickers to harsh glow of Reality.
And I read the book. Now its all just in there.
The world, someone said is divided into those who have read the Lord of the Rings and those who are going to read it.
I can hear my brain say aloud “It’s got to be Elven”…and the rest of the thouht just fades into a strange tongue….and I realize I know the meaning of those words although I can’t understand it. … “Its got to be Elven when there is such compassion that’s never been seen before on a human face”.
Then…she lifted up her hand and from the ring that she wore there issued a great light that illuminated her alone and left all else dark.She stood tall beyond measurement, and beautiful beyond enduring, terrible and worshipful.
Those blue eyes framed in that ethereal face moved into expression…And then she's gone…the dark fades as a trashy tubelight flickers on...
... And I read the book. Now its all just in there.
That book is a part of the Life I never had…a life that peeks open through doors in dark rooms and fade with the light of an alleged Reality.
Some times, even when I don’t know it, I find myself walking down the roads on the Other side. Without knowing it, my feet took a turn at a Time warp…and ….I’m on the Road.
Rickshaws pass me by and people talk in a language unknown to me…I walk apart from the roaring crowd that marches to the rhythm that’s unfamiliar to me. … A map in my bag and I smell Adventure.
Or the banks of some sacred river at sunset….watch the faithful go to prayer at a melancholy call across the landscape…or when the sun rises a top a temple in Rajashtan.
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.
The trip ends and magic and adventure sinks into the gaps between…the pages of a book.
I switch the lights on in the dark room that flickers to harsh glow of Reality.
And I read the book. Now its all just in there.
The world, someone said is divided into those who have read the Lord of the Rings and those who are going to read it.
AfterGlow
Some people, I have heard…strictly a rumour… these guys….they are worried about their teeth. They go to other people who know how to heal teeth and pay large sums of money for it. It’s supposed to be some strange ritual not known to many people – LIKE ME.
Goddamn dentists – what kind of sick society would create a niche for such creatures to exist and THRIVE. Like viruses.
Goddamn dentists – what kind of sick society would create a niche for such creatures to exist and THRIVE. Like viruses.
Is it virii in plural? I hate grammar.
Anyway… this raises many questions like: What’s the deal with grammar, for instance? And famous ones like: What is the Government doing these days?
But all these are rumors. Strictly. So we will move on…
So the other weekend, I blew it on a Lighting workshop. Intense 6 hours per day for 3 days and I must admit I’m quite impressed with the whole thing. Stage lighting to recreate life – or even something quite unlike it… There’s this sense of power associated with the ability to throw light on something – and define it…artistically.
Anyway… this raises many questions like: What’s the deal with grammar, for instance? And famous ones like: What is the Government doing these days?
But all these are rumors. Strictly. So we will move on…
So the other weekend, I blew it on a Lighting workshop. Intense 6 hours per day for 3 days and I must admit I’m quite impressed with the whole thing. Stage lighting to recreate life – or even something quite unlike it… There’s this sense of power associated with the ability to throw light on something – and define it…artistically.
God, for instance was accused of it.
I remember long ago, someone said something like Nature of Imagination is esemplastic. I like words like that. It gives me the happy feeling of empathy with the person who twisted a feeling into a word.
Anyway, this Lighting workshop… it esemplasted the Hell out of my infantile ideas about Lighting. Who would have guessed…a console on top of the theatre is the seat of power.
Good stuff.
I watch the afternoon sun suddenly and think ‘Harsh white – Fresnel light. Cut shadows with backlight and Top of House’. And move on.
The Lighting workshop changed my life.
Thought Bubble
Intelligence is critical to life. In more ways than you might think.
Given that ‘more ways than you can think’ is an infinite variable scuttling around like the freakin Heisenberg’s Uncertainty Principle itself, it’s quite hard to peg this intelligence thingy down at a value. Its safe, it follows logically, to leave that at that secure value - immeasurable.
To have it - that one crystal clear thought – separated from the rest of the neuron generated heat- like a blissful, unconcerned, superbly crafted notion. To have that, amidst the rest of the white noise – that capacity for clarity without crutches. It’s…well…somethin’ else.
I guess I should lead this up with a wonderful instance of such intelligence, but, unfortunately, no such luck.
Given that ‘more ways than you can think’ is an infinite variable scuttling around like the freakin Heisenberg’s Uncertainty Principle itself, it’s quite hard to peg this intelligence thingy down at a value. Its safe, it follows logically, to leave that at that secure value - immeasurable.
To have it - that one crystal clear thought – separated from the rest of the neuron generated heat- like a blissful, unconcerned, superbly crafted notion. To have that, amidst the rest of the white noise – that capacity for clarity without crutches. It’s…well…somethin’ else.
I guess I should lead this up with a wonderful instance of such intelligence, but, unfortunately, no such luck.
Wednesday
Trip shit...
Another undated day in my life - indeterminate time, indeterminate event, indeterminate people. Coordinates of Time, Space and Action is somehow irrelevant to Life. They’re just incidental detail to be updated on a need-to-know basis. This time, in the words of a famous Somebody, I don’t need to know. Einstein, if you’re rolling in your grave, well, sonny, somebody had to tell you the Truth. It had to be me. The irony is incidental.
Anyway… it was indeterminate coordinates when I looked up and then there it was… circling in the sky like some Goddamn unaffected planet - at the same instant, Floyd was singing the favorite.
Suddenly she said, ‘That’s the thing with Floyd’. Everyone present just nodded. There was a palpable agreement in that pleasant silence.
I like these moments.
Either no one is listening or no one gives a rats ass. Either way I like it. You throw a meaty bone and the well-fed dog just sniffs and says ‘Thanks but no thanks’. The comfort is in the fact that no one cares about your feelings. I like this neglect. It’s wonderfully comforting.
Saying the Thank Yous and Spreading all that Love and Happiness, Agreement and Democracy, Ass licking, Smiling, Be Happy, Be Positive just GETS to me like a million skunks on overdrive. The problem with the world is that too many people want to agree with each other.
Lets be REAL for a while and tell people what we really think. What a wonderful thing that will be for the world. No more Stupid social gatherings with Aunties and Marriage proposals and “I just bought a new house and by the way, I’m a superstar” tête-à-tête.
Sample conversation between A & B:
A: ‘Hey there! Here's a thought - how about you never talk to me again as long as we both live? Cos the truth is, I can't stand you. ”
B: ‘Sure thing’
A & B part ways.
This is the world I want to live in.
Anyway… it was indeterminate coordinates when I looked up and then there it was… circling in the sky like some Goddamn unaffected planet - at the same instant, Floyd was singing the favorite.
Suddenly she said, ‘That’s the thing with Floyd’. Everyone present just nodded. There was a palpable agreement in that pleasant silence.
I like these moments.
Either no one is listening or no one gives a rats ass. Either way I like it. You throw a meaty bone and the well-fed dog just sniffs and says ‘Thanks but no thanks’. The comfort is in the fact that no one cares about your feelings. I like this neglect. It’s wonderfully comforting.
Saying the Thank Yous and Spreading all that Love and Happiness, Agreement and Democracy, Ass licking, Smiling, Be Happy, Be Positive just GETS to me like a million skunks on overdrive. The problem with the world is that too many people want to agree with each other.
Lets be REAL for a while and tell people what we really think. What a wonderful thing that will be for the world. No more Stupid social gatherings with Aunties and Marriage proposals and “I just bought a new house and by the way, I’m a superstar” tête-à-tête.
Sample conversation between A & B:
A: ‘Hey there! Here's a thought - how about you never talk to me again as long as we both live? Cos the truth is, I can't stand you. ”
B: ‘Sure thing’
A & B part ways.
This is the world I want to live in.
Monday
It was Sunday
It was Sunday.
One of those indeterminate times between late afternoon and just about evening when the winter sun decides to go surreal. It filtered in slanting golden through foliage and concrete and lit up everything in sepia glow like a Grace Kelly movie.
So from the balcony I was sitting on…everything moved in this afterglow-flush in suspended animation. A cyclist creaked past and someone made their way across the road and disappeared into a school building. Nothing else moved. Then a couple of kids ran down the footpath tripping over each other. Nothing much else happened.
It was like the city had holed itself up and gone to sleep ... and in that rare moment of respite everything slowed down and breathed.
So I was watching the scene ... sentence hanging mid page of Catcher in the Rye the hundredth time over– and suddenly... it was Perfect. Like a Dave Mathews song or like comic timing.
The whole damn thing was Just Right - for no fathomable reason.
Just then some idiot honked loudly... as if by cue the traffic picked up, the sun started to fade and I remembered I had to be somewhere else. The quiet blurred out of focus … and the moment crumbled – it was over just as it happened.
I guess that’s what’s killing about it - Perfection is insignificant.
One of those indeterminate times between late afternoon and just about evening when the winter sun decides to go surreal. It filtered in slanting golden through foliage and concrete and lit up everything in sepia glow like a Grace Kelly movie.
So from the balcony I was sitting on…everything moved in this afterglow-flush in suspended animation. A cyclist creaked past and someone made their way across the road and disappeared into a school building. Nothing else moved. Then a couple of kids ran down the footpath tripping over each other. Nothing much else happened.
It was like the city had holed itself up and gone to sleep ... and in that rare moment of respite everything slowed down and breathed.
So I was watching the scene ... sentence hanging mid page of Catcher in the Rye the hundredth time over– and suddenly... it was Perfect. Like a Dave Mathews song or like comic timing.
The whole damn thing was Just Right - for no fathomable reason.
Just then some idiot honked loudly... as if by cue the traffic picked up, the sun started to fade and I remembered I had to be somewhere else. The quiet blurred out of focus … and the moment crumbled – it was over just as it happened.
I guess that’s what’s killing about it - Perfection is insignificant.
Tuesday
Go against the flow!
Sometimes I think all this thing about Change being a good thing is all crap.
Look at what it did to my city. I can’t stand it anymore… It bothers me intensely. It really does. The fact that Bangalore, from its quaint, slow paced, treelined, simple city populated with soft spoken laid-back dosa-eating coffee-drinking public is fast turning into a mess. It’s become an unrecognizable grimy, anonymous, insipid, borderless city…
I miss it. The good old times that turned ugly so quick that I can’t comprehend it. I miss those times…
Times when the streets of Malleshwaram smelt of a curious mix of rasam powder, flowers and wood smoke…when the best hangout places used to be India Coffe house, Koshy’s, galaxy theatre, airlines hotel and Pecos… when Koramangala was still a swamp…
I miss my old Bengaluru… the city it used to be and more than anything I miss who it allowed me to be.
And so here I was, musing on retro mode when I stumbled across this piece – written by someone from across the planet, who felt that same way… that maybe change ain’t such a great thing after all, maybe somethings should remain the way they are… simply cos what is, is so immesurably valuable.
Anyway…there was something so touching about how it was written, I simply had to put this up.
So here goes…
I grew up in the 50s with practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed aluminum foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen, before they had a Name for it... A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones. Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them now, Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower in one hand, and dish-towel in the other.
It was the time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress Things we keep. It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy. All that re-fixing, eating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.
But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So... while we have it... it's best we love it.... and care for it... and fix it when it's broken...... and heal it when it's sick.
This is true. for marriage..... and old cars.... and children with bad report cards..... and dogs with bad hips... and aging parents..... and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
There are just some things that make life important, like people we know ... or maybe just a way of life that was so worthwhile… and sometimes, it makes sense to take the time and learn how to resist the urge to start over new. Cos the old is valuable. More than we’ll ever know.
Look at what it did to my city. I can’t stand it anymore… It bothers me intensely. It really does. The fact that Bangalore, from its quaint, slow paced, treelined, simple city populated with soft spoken laid-back dosa-eating coffee-drinking public is fast turning into a mess. It’s become an unrecognizable grimy, anonymous, insipid, borderless city…
I miss it. The good old times that turned ugly so quick that I can’t comprehend it. I miss those times…
Times when the streets of Malleshwaram smelt of a curious mix of rasam powder, flowers and wood smoke…when the best hangout places used to be India Coffe house, Koshy’s, galaxy theatre, airlines hotel and Pecos… when Koramangala was still a swamp…
I miss my old Bengaluru… the city it used to be and more than anything I miss who it allowed me to be.
And so here I was, musing on retro mode when I stumbled across this piece – written by someone from across the planet, who felt that same way… that maybe change ain’t such a great thing after all, maybe somethings should remain the way they are… simply cos what is, is so immesurably valuable.
Anyway…there was something so touching about how it was written, I simply had to put this up.
So here goes…
I grew up in the 50s with practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed aluminum foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen, before they had a Name for it... A father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones. Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them now, Dad in trousers, tee shirt and a hat and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower in one hand, and dish-towel in the other.
It was the time for fixing things. A curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress Things we keep. It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy. All that re-fixing, eating, renewing, I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.
But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So... while we have it... it's best we love it.... and care for it... and fix it when it's broken...... and heal it when it's sick.
This is true. for marriage..... and old cars.... and children with bad report cards..... and dogs with bad hips... and aging parents..... and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.
There are just some things that make life important, like people we know ... or maybe just a way of life that was so worthwhile… and sometimes, it makes sense to take the time and learn how to resist the urge to start over new. Cos the old is valuable. More than we’ll ever know.
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